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3 Principles for Opening Your Mind, Heart & Home to Love

Author Name: Tracee Dunblazier
Publish Date: May 2, 2016
Website Link: https://www.meetmindful.com/opening-your-mind-heart-home-to-love/

Opening your mind, heart, and home to love starts with three simple principles. Let’s get started.

Welcoming Love

The three most important principles for opening your mind, heart, and home to love are cleaning and clearing, welcoming love, and harmoniously having the object of your desire. Love comes to us in our lives, in many ways, subtle and overt. The more we recognize the subtle ways love comes to us, the more harmoniously we will embrace the overt ways we engage in the giving and receiving of love.

Believe it or not, human beings need to give love more than we need to receive it… and the Jedi mind trick here is that receiving love is a natural response to having given it. The more you give love freely, the more it finds its way back to you. Keeping that in mind, here are the changes to make to manifest more love.

Receiving Love

The most important thing to do when you want to have more love in your life is to create space for it, literally. Getting rid of clutter, cleaning out drawers, and having as much surface space in all the rooms of the home—but especially the bedroom—is vital. Once you have cleared all that space and had a garage sale, it’s time to clean.

Start with the bathroom and kitchen. Those two rooms in the house are where energy is piped in and released all day. You really want to scrub the baseboards and walls, and all of the appliances and fixtures, and keep the lid down on the toilet. Take my word for it, there is nothing sexier than a clean bathroom corner.

Giving Love

A person’s preparedness to give and receive love is always evident in their home if you really look. Take a moment to take your own inventory. How much extra space do you have? How clean is your environment? Do you have past memorabilia up everywhere, or is it concentrated to one area? On a scale of one to 10, 10 being ready, how prepared are you? There are quite a few enhancers to support love and relationship in your life.

Chances are: If you have a lot of past relationship memorabilia, you’re not really open to a new one. So it’s important to mark the heralding of a new time for love in your life. Some of my favorite ways are: planting a lime tree in the Southwest sector of your garden, placing pictures of Peonies, or a pair of something—say, flowers, animals, or whatever resonates with you will work—in your living room and bedroom. These are all symbol’s of a happy relationship.

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About the Author

Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is a regular contributor to MeetMindful who is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings.

About the Author

Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is a regular contributor to MeetMindful who is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings.

How Personal Transformation Can Help or Hinder Relationship

Author Name: Tracee Dunblazier
Publish Date: May 15, 2016
Website Link: https://www.meetmindful.com/how-personal-transformation-can-help-hinder/

When we’re experiencing our own phase of personal transformation, we sometimes forget it can have very real implications for our relationships.


Under all circumstances, wanting to be a better person is admirable. It’s something we all strive for. But, what happens to your relationship when you make those long sought after changes? It should make everything better, right? Personal transformation and relationships are a funny thing; as you understand the first, the impact on the second—while maybe not pleasurable—makes sense.

Enlightenment is a process of lightening up. Meaning: your burden, confusion, and selfishness are giving way to joy, clarity, and presence. Sometimes we enter into relationships that are based on the burdens we carry and the very thing that we are trying to unload. It makes perfect sense that the relationships centered around our deepest wounds can disappear as quickly as the process of healing them.

Burden to Joy:

What is a burden, really? It’s the weight of your ungrieved spirit seeking acknowledgement and release. The more you receive its presence with compassion it transforms into grief. Embracing this process creates a lightness unlike any other experience you can have, not even a good adrenaline rush compares.

In a relationship:

The beginning perception of a person who is new to the process of transformation to their stationary partner is repulsion. They begin to witness their movement and lightness in reference to the perceived negativity or misery of their partner. Phrases like higher or lower vibration, positive or negative attitude, or old or new soul are all common in this phase of development. It’s true that a relationship created in this place is all about inner conflict and outer struggle. It’s possible to make this work but you must choose patience.

Confusion to Clarity:

It is through our emotions that we decipher and relate to our world. Confusion then, is the next logical phase of lightening up. Confusion means you are fluctuating between dominance and submission. In certain scenarios you perceive and desire the illusion of control, while in others you give over to the dominance of others.

In a relationship:

This phase of lightening up helps you to consciously recognize that you see your world through how you see yourself. Victimization is a popular sentiment in this process, so a relationship here can often be volatile and steeped in conflict. Sometimes, over as quickly as it starts. The true spiritual purpose of these relationships are to promote the release of ungrieved pain on every level. On the up side: they are an efficient way of healing.

Selfishness to Presence:

Self-awareness is not a gift, it is earned over lifetimes and the hard won battles of self-mastery. The process of becoming present is to recognize that your anger is a tool you use to be present in the moment when you are not. The more you can, not get mad, but become present to what is happening, the easier you will recognize whatever you may need in the moment and readily have access to it.

In a relationship:

Peacefulness to a victim, is boring. If that phrase made you angry, you are contending with your burdens but will soon experience a powerful transformation. If that phrase made you irritated or sad but you heard it, you are squarely in your confusion here, and your goal is to surrender to the emotional movement at this time. Don’t try to understand right now, just feel. If you giggled a little at this phrase because you know that’s right, you have surrendered to being at peace with your past and feel anchored in your present. No matter which response you have, you will attract partners who mirror the same thing back to you.

It’s important to understand we are all traveling through all of these phases of enlightenment at any given time and in relationship to different circumstances. A truly enlightened person knows it is not the absence of burden that gives us wisdom… it is the joy with which we pummel each one that does. So do yourself a favor: In your relationships, be patient with yourself love one another and don’t resist the flow of movement. It’s the shortest distance to exactly where you want to go.

 

 

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Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings. In 2015, Tracee founded GoTracee Publishing LLC and BeASlayer.com to publish a new hybrid of self-help, memoir, and spiritual book to access a wider audience of spiritual seekers. As a multi-sensitive, Tracee blends information that she receives intuitively with different modalities to create a unique healing plan for every client. Every session is focused on freeing the client from their presenting issue to release, empower, and heal – no matter what the condition. Tracee’s compassionate, humorous, down-to-earth style supports and empowers clients as tender topics are addressed during the session. An accomplished author, Tracee has written two books on the topic of personal soul excavation and deep healing from soul to body. Book one: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Mastering Your Inner World addresses inner mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery through self-awareness and spirit guide communication. Book two: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Self- Healing and Unconditional Love empowers cultural awareness and understanding through looking at the concept of past lives and soul imprints. Tracee’s published articles cover many subjects related to spirituality and relationships while her blog breaks down current events and daily energy dynamics that everyone experiences. Tracee’s been a guest on many prominent television and radio programs informing others about spirituality and sacred ritual practices. Tracee teaches workshops, webinars, and offers two online courses on the DailyOm.com. As well as speaking engagements touching on subjects like grief, death & dying, unconditional love, self- acceptance, and healing.

3 Principles for Opening Your Mind, Heart & Home to Love

Author Name: MeetMindful
Publish Date: May 18, 2016
Website Link: http://yoganonymous.com/3-principles-for-opening-your-mind-heart-home-to-love

Opening your mind, heart, and home to love starts with three simple principles. Tracee Dunblazier walks us through the finer points to letting love in.


Welcoming Love

The three most important principles for opening your mind, heart, and home to love are: cleaning and clearing, welcoming love, and harmoniously having the object of your desire. Love comes to us in our lives, in many ways, subtle and overt. The more we recognize the subtle ways love comes to us, the more harmoniously we will embrace the overt ways we engage in the giving and receiving of love.

Believe it or not, human beings need to give love more than we need to receive it… and the Jedi mind trick here is that receiving love is a natural response to having given it. The more you give love freely, the more it finds its way back to you. Keeping that in mind, here are the changes to make to manifest more love.

Receiving Love

The most important thing to do when you want to have more love in your life is to create space for it, literally. Getting rid of clutter, cleaning out drawers, and having as much surface space in all the rooms of the home—but especially the bedroom—is vital. Once you have cleared all that space and had a garage sale, it’s time to clean.

Start with the bathroom and kitchen. Those two rooms in the house are where energy is piped in and released all day. You really want to scrub the baseboards and walls, and all of the appliances and fixtures, and keep the lid down on the toilet. Take my word for it, there is nothing sexier than a clean bathroom corner.

Giving Love

A person’s preparedness to give and receive love is always evident in their home if you really look. Take a moment to take your own inventory. How much extra space do you have? How clean is your environment? Do you have past memorabilia up everywhere, or is it concentrated to one area? On a scale of 1-10, 10 being ready, how prepared are you? There are quite a few enhancers to support love and relationship in your life.

Chances are: If you have a lot of past relationship memorabilia, you’re not really open to a new one. So it’s important to mark the heralding of a new time for love in your life. Some of my favorite ways are: planting a lime tree in the Southwest sector of your garden, placing pictures of Peonies, or a pair of something—say, flowers, animals, or whatever resonates with you will work—in your living room and bedroom. These are all symbol’s of a happy relationship.

Creating Love

It’s true that your heart radiates harmony to all you come in contact with: all of your life situations. If you have the relationship that you want with yourself, you will easily be able to live with the new love that you draw to you. I believe the meaning of eternal life is: it’s our human and spiritual birthright to transmute and transform anything that causes imbalance in us; to completely heal on all levels.

One of the most impactful downfalls of any relationship is the sometimes-daily disregards we receive from our partners or the ways we may be subtly neglecting them. The way your friend spoke to you when she was disgusted with something else, or when your lover made a joke and didn’t notice it wasn’t funny to you and slightly hurtful, or maybe your boss, in their stressful day, spoke sharply to you. Any one of these seemingly harmless gaffs, over time, add up to frustration, resentment, and unexpressed grief. Which leads to distrust, bitterness, and withdrawing of affection…I could go on and on with this list. Every relationship we have needs loving maintenance: friends, lovers, colleagues, and of course, ourselves.

Consistent self-reflection and taking inventory about your thoughts, feelings, and actions can really help. We may not be perfect, but it’s really important to be self-aware. Every time you reflect, then strategize, on what you can do and say next time to include everyone, you create more space for love.

Renew Your Love

Remember: having compassion for others, in addition to yourself, is the goal. There will begin to be a cultivation of your own self-trust. The more you trust yourself and your own integrity the more you are able to accurately discern those who you can deeply trust.

You may find that not every relationship will end up staying in their current position in your Universe. Some people we can deeply trust, and some people we know better than to trust. Either way, what’s most important is our self-honesty.

Creating more space for love and cultivating your awareness of yourself, your environment, and others will allow and promote a loving flow in your life. Most importantly, finding new and conscientious ways to express and receive love in your life and being honest, will be the renewable resource of love that you’re looking for.

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About the Author:

Tracee Dunblazier Tracee Dunblazier

Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings. In 2015, Tracee founded GoTracee Publishing LLC and BeASlayer.com to publish a new hybrid of self-help, memoir, and spiritual book to access a wider audience of spiritual seekers. As a multi-sensitive, Tracee blends information that she receives intuitively with different modalities to create a unique healing plan for every client. Every session is focused on freeing the client from their presenting issue to release, empower, and heal – no matter what the condition. Tracee’s compassionate, humorous, down-to-earth style supports and empowers clients as tender topics are addressed during the session. An accomplished author, Tracee has written two books on the topic of personal soul excavation and deep healing from soul to body. Book one: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Mastering Your Inner World addresses inner mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery through self-awareness and spirit guide communication. Book two: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Self- Healing and Unconditional Love empowers cultural awareness and understanding through looking at the concept of past lives and soul imprints. Tracee’s published articles cover many subjects related to spirituality and relationships while her blog breaks down current events and daily energy dynamics that everyone experiences. Tracee’s been a guest on many prominent television and radio programs informing others about spirituality and sacred ritual practices. Tracee teaches workshops, webinars, and offers two online courses on the DailyOm.com. As well as speaking engagements touching on subjects like grief, death & dying, unconditional love, self- acceptance, and healing.

How do I handle attachment?

Author Name: Tracee Dunblazier
Publish Date: April 18, 2016
Website Link: https://www.meetmindful.com/how-do-i-handle-attachment/

In the mindful community, we strive for non-attachment in our lives (and relationships). But attachment, when treated with care, can teach us a great deal.


Author’s note: The following is a little sneak preview of an excerpt from my third book of The Demon Slayer’s Handbook Series; A Practical Guide to Karmic Relationships.*

Understanding our general relationship dynamics is profound, but add to it the spiritual dynamics of all that lies beneath and you can have a real carnival show. Fun and entertaining, yet confusing. Pleasurably filled with joy, yet devastating. Here is the inside scoop on how to dig deep for the nuggets of Gold you were born with.

Attachment = Vulnerability = Receptivity

The best way to handle something is to investigate it head on: find a way to break it down into smaller digestible pieces and eventually understand it. That’s why so many of us get overwhelmed in relationships when we’re in the process of getting to know someone. Sometimes the emotional doors fly open and we feel intensely close to someone in a very short period of time; or, conversely, we spend an inordinate amount of time and energy trying to keep those doors closed.

I thought it might be helpful to look at attachment as a skill, from the prospective of personal responsibility. After all: it’s your door and you can open it if you want, it takes more work to keep the door shut, and if you keep inviting someone to knock at your door, but never open it for them, they’ll get bored and leave. Nobody wants to sit and stare at a closed door—unless of course, they have open doors in other houses.

The most important thing to understand is that attachment and openness in a relationship are the same thing. Yes, the same thing. The only difference is your perception and level of self-trust. And, of course, our sense of self comes from many factors like: our spiritual patterns, what we think, what we’ve seen, and what we’ve experienced. I’ve broken it down to three main levels. Truly, there are many more, but grasping and holding on to these three will begin to build your confidence and understanding of where you’re at.

You can only change what you know to change.

Attachment is for Beginners:

Feeling attached to someone is experiencing an immense—and at times abrupt—spiritual emotional connection. It’s most difficult to manage this when you’ve just met someone and aren’t quite sure of the content of their character. So, when this happens, try your best: not to sweat the small stuff, be too pushy or emotionally overbearing, or give ultimatums.

This is the time to communicate freely and deliberately about who you are, what you like, and where you’re at. Often when people feel overly attached they focus a lot on what they want and don’t want in a relationship—which normally is a good thing; however in this instance, it’s usually coming from a fear of not getting what you need.

Instead, focus on what you like, be willing to set gentle boundaries, and to respect the boundaries of others. If you’re in a longer-term relationship: attachment often stems from dishonesty, minimal communication, or a crisis of some sort. In this case, communication is king. It’s natural to feel insecure when you’re not getting all of the information you need or when your emotional and mental bodies are being taxed because of trauma. Stop, breathe, speak, and listen and know this too, shall pass.

love, gay couple, beach, sunshine, happyVulnerability is for Amateurs:

Attachment is being vulnerable to someone. When you open your heart in an authentic way, or are emotionally or sexually connected, you intermingle spiritually and energetically. Anxiety, intense emotion, or thinking about someone all of the time, lets you know they’ve entered your spirit. Anxiety in a relationship often is a note from your lover saying they’re in your house but not necessarily home. It doesn’t mean you or they are in love; it means you are connected and there is an openness and opportunity to love.

Being vulnerable to someone means you are in a natural place of openness. It requires of you three things: maturity, patience, and kindness. Those are the first three trust-building skills we need to master in order to find peace and authenticity in our vulnerability.

Being vulnerable to someone means the power they have over us is directly related to the value we give to them or put on them. And, how you value someone is in your control alone. Have patience to allow the natural unfolding of getting to know someone. No need to push the river. Maturity allows you to know when and how to set personal boundaries, and kindness is the key to persevering through confusion and enduring in the relationship.

Receptivity is for Professionals:

A real attachment professional is in constant communication with himself. She knows the things that trigger her and is willing to walk herself through them. He knows that a deep-level connection with someone ebbs and flows all of the time; and when you’re in a deep state of receptivity with another person you feel when they are present in the relationship and when they are not. If your lover has pulled their energy back, they’ve not necessarily left the situation, they’ve only connected to other things of value in their lives.

This pulling back of energy can be unnerving to you if you’re the least bit unclear about the reason. That’s why your willingness and ability to speak openly with candor and grace is so important. The subtle way you language things will be the difference between peace or conflict.

Staying in the first person present tense with a focus on personal responsibility is your friend.

Saying things like: I am, I will, I feel, all for the purpose of expressing yourself and then promoting the expression of your lover. When you’re receptive to another, they in no way are the cause of your feelings, experiences, or troubles. You are. How you feel is an indication of your possible need to express yourself, grieve, or set boundaries: all things you control.

Being at a professional level means you know this and are willing to take responsibility. Not that you know how or do it well. Believe me, that’s a skill with a huge learning curve and takes daily practice. It is mostly our romantic relationships that bring out our most submerged wounds to be healed. For they connect with us the most deeply, at least for a period of time.

As a spiritual empath, I am in some sort of deep connection with a few people always—understanding my attachment is the way I telepathically communicate with them at any given time. It’s been quite a journey to understand that things weren’t necessarily the way I felt them to be, but an expression of my connection and perception. In which knowing myself first was the way to recognizing what I’m feeling versus what I may be empathetically or intuitively aware of in another.

Knowing and trusting yourself has its own learning curve that comes over time and through awareness. Surrendering yourself to attachment, vulnerability, and receptivity is the shortest path to get there. Go with courage!

 

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About the Author:

Tracee Dunblazier Tracee Dunblazier

Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings. In 2015, Tracee founded GoTracee Publishing LLC and BeASlayer.com to publish a new hybrid of self-help, memoir, and spiritual book to access a wider audience of spiritual seekers. As a multi-sensitive, Tracee blends information that she receives intuitively with different modalities to create a unique healing plan for every client. Every session is focused on freeing the client from their presenting issue to release, empower, and heal – no matter what the condition. Tracee’s compassionate, humorous, down-to-earth style supports and empowers clients as tender topics are addressed during the session. An accomplished author, Tracee has written two books on the topic of personal soul excavation and deep healing from soul to body. Book one: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Mastering Your Inner World addresses inner mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery through self-awareness and spirit guide communication. Book two: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Self- Healing and Unconditional Love empowers cultural awareness and understanding through looking at the concept of past lives and soul imprints. Tracee’s published articles cover many subjects related to spirituality and relationships while her blog breaks down current events and daily energy dynamics that everyone experiences. Tracee’s been a guest on many prominent television and radio programs informing others about spirituality and sacred ritual practices. Tracee teaches workshops, webinars, and offers two online courses on the DailyOm.com. As well as speaking engagements touching on subjects like grief, death & dying, unconditional love, self- acceptance, and healing.

The Difference Between Loving Someone & Being IN LOVE

Author Name: Tracee Dunblazier
Publish Date: April 11, 2016
Website Link: https://www.meetmindful.com/loving-someone-being-in-love/

Do you love them or are you in love with them? The question presents an opportunity to dig down and deeply understand what being in love is all about.


I love: love! There is no other way to say it.

I love the giddy stomach-churning, heart palpitating joy of a loving connection. I even enjoy the heart-wrenching struggle of overcoming the inevitable disappointment that comes with it. You know, the cosmic turn of events that require you to champion the fun love that seems to have briefly disappeared, so you can get it back? Yes, I even love the work that love, at times, requires.

There are many phases to a relationship but there are only two intertwining phases to love. One, is the initial connecting of the body, mind, heart, and spirit. The second is the succession of choices made over and over that contribute to the living love that two people end up with in their relationship.

Make no mistake about it: Love is no joke. It’s a lot of work. Working to overcome your fears of intimacy, trust, and even a dawning happiness. I know that sounds strange but being happy can be a daunting task. So, I’d like to take a moment to simplify love.

The Experience of Love:

People connect on many levels: mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. You can fall in love with anyone when you connect on any of these levels. Because the idea of falling in love is the experience of being receptive to the connection and allowing it to happen.

However, people falling in love with each other first fall in love with themselves as they see who they are or who they wish to be in their partner. We experience the falling feeling of love as each of the following elements open up, but when they inevitably close again—as is the way of the universe—the feelings of love are temporal. We are then left with the opportunity to choose love based on our relationship to each element, individually.

More specifically, we connect with another person through our sense of: security, power, open heartedness, communication, values, and ideals. We fall in love as we connect on each level and the more we acclimate to that new experience and the newness of it leaves us, so too, might the love—with only a choice left behind to champion what once was.

The experience of security in a relationship comes when a person feels stronger because of the connection of the relationship or because they feel taken care of and safe that their most basic needs are met.

The experience of power in the relationship is present when at least one of the partners has confidence and the other partner benefits, leaving them both feeling powerful for a time.

The experience of open-heartedness in a relationship comes when two hearts connect for any reason: compassion, sympathy, empathy, joy, grief, or love.

The experience of communication in a relationship happens when there is an easy flow of expression or the support, education, and permission that someone needs to do so.

The experience of shared values with another in a relationship comes from common knowledge and experiences whether they be; geographic, cultural, racial, experiential, spiritual, or emotional.

The experience of shared ideals with another in a relationship come from either a deeper belief in humanity or the shared recognition in a higher power, or at very least, a focus on anything outside the self.

The Process of Love:

Loving somebody is a series of choices we make daily for the opportunity to experience the original rush of love. As we fall more deeply in love with ourselves, we are able to cultivate the most powerful tools required for an enduring, loving relationship to another: trust, kindness, patience, motivation, inspiration, and joy.

Trust is your ability to know that you can recover from anything.

Kindness is your ability to choose a firm graceful boundary where necessary and forgoing the need to be right all of the time.

Patience is the willingness to let things happen in their divine timing rather than the timing that you hope for or expect.

Motivation is the underlying set of beliefs that support a person’s reasons for being in relationship.

Inspiration is the set of cosmic ideals that perpetuate going outside of traditional beliefs in order to keep the loving flow to a relationship.

Joy is the mutual experience of power combined with happiness that creates confidence in a relationship.

Hopefully this mini tutorial has cleared up any confusion on the concept of love. Now, it’s up to you to manifest the action and choice to love. Everyone can fall in love, but having and sustaining the opportunity to love someone, is a privilege.

 

 

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About the Author:

Tracee Dunblazier Tracee Dunblazier

Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings. In 2015, Tracee founded GoTracee Publishing LLC and BeASlayer.com to publish a new hybrid of self-help, memoir, and spiritual book to access a wider audience of spiritual seekers. As a multi-sensitive, Tracee blends information that she receives intuitively with different modalities to create a unique healing plan for every client. Every session is focused on freeing the client from their presenting issue to release, empower, and heal – no matter what the condition. Tracee’s compassionate, humorous, down-to-earth style supports and empowers clients as tender topics are addressed during the session. An accomplished author, Tracee has written two books on the topic of personal soul excavation and deep healing from soul to body. Book one: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Mastering Your Inner World addresses inner mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery through self-awareness and spirit guide communication. Book two: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Self- Healing and Unconditional Love empowers cultural awareness and understanding through looking at the concept of past lives and soul imprints. Tracee’s published articles cover many subjects related to spirituality and relationships while her blog breaks down current events and daily energy dynamics that everyone experiences. Tracee’s been a guest on many prominent television and radio programs informing others about spirituality and sacred ritual practices. Tracee teaches workshops, webinars, and offers two online courses on the DailyOm.com. As well as speaking engagements touching on subjects like grief, death & dying, unconditional love, self- acceptance, and healing.

How do I know if I’m ready for my soulmate?

Author Name: Tracee Dunblazier
Publish Date: April 4, 2016
Website Link: https://www.meetmindful.com/ready-for-my-soulmate/

Before you can decide if you’re ready for your soulmate, we should examine all the ways a soulmate can show up in our lives. The reality might surprise you.


In short, the answer is: you’re always ready.

But that raises the question: what is the definition of a soulmate?

The common perception of a soulmate is a person who is the love of your life, a beloved. That’s true, but not how you’d think. The truth is, we have many soulmates in a life time. They are people with whom we have previous life experience and spiritual connection. Re-connecting with them is an experience unlike any other. Sometimes it’s an instant emotional reaction to someone upon meeting them, while others, it’s a subtle knowing or familiarity with a person you’ve not met before.

Soulmate relationship’s aren’t always loving, happy-go-lucky, live happily ever after experience’s for everyone. In fact, most often, the connection brings two people back together to heal a dynamic left incomplete. Not necessarily incomplete between the two people coming together, but the attraction of two people with intersecting life patterns.

What’s the reason you’re always ready, you ask? Well, we attract in the spiritual partners we need when we’re ready to transform or develop the spiritual patterns we have in common with those we attract. “For every lock there is a key”* is the principal at work here, and during your lifetime you’ll have many relationships with locks and keys.

Everyone has a soul group. They are people who we have connection to and affinity with and who may appear in our lives just in time to give us support, teach us a lesson, or love us unconditionally. They are the souls with whom we share our eternity.

The most important thing to consider as you contemplate your soulmates? It takes cultivated unconditional love to be a soulmate. These spiritual beings love you so much they come back to play a role in your life as you do the same for others; so, no matter the timbre of the relationship, a soulmate deserves respect and honor.

Below is a list of the many types of soulmate relationships you can have.

Allies:

Allies are often people we cross paths with whom we may or may not cultivate lasting relationships; but when we are connected with them, they will stand with us, giving loving support and guidance.

“I’d just moved to Los Angeles and was driving home one Friday evening when my car stalled on the freeway. Luckily I was near an exit and rolled off as the smoke from my engine drifted upwards. Two guys saw what was happening and pushed my vehicle into a parking lot where many young folks had begun their Friday night hang. I got out of my car to use the pay phone when a few crackheads (a woman with two men standing behind her) backed me up against the wall and began to shout at me, calling me names and saying they were going to hurt me.

Literally, the group gathering in the parking lot of around fifty people started to gravitate toward us to watch the commotion, when finally, a young woman stepped out of the laundromat next door. She was an imposing woman, about eight months pregnant, but probably wasn’t a day over twenty-two. Evidently she knew the crackheads by name and when the crowd parted to let her through, she told them to stop…and they did. Whew, it’s in my memory as if it were yesterday. The woman’s name was Gloria and after I thanked her, she suggested I get a tow truck and leave as quickly as possible. Which I did. Gloria was quite an ally that night. I never saw her again, yet she is woven into the fabric of my personal history.” **

Enemies:

Enemies are the karmic relationships that are profoundly vital to our education and learning of the boundaries of the human spirit. They are the soulmates that come into our lives to show us adversity and compassion. Often, when we first meet these people, we like them, but something just doesn’t sit right. Our enemies offer an opportunity to learn to trust our instincts. They don’t appear to have our best interest at heart and require us to, at times, be self-sufficient. But in truth: it is our enemies that help us decide who we are and who we want to be.

“My last year in New York City was quite tumultuous. I lived in one of the many gentrifying neighborhoods that had previously been in an extreme state of dilapidation. As people moved in and started rebuilding, so did the criminals.

Every night I’d come home in a cab between 1-4 a.m. Waiting for me, were a particular group of thugs who found it entertaining to chase me into my building. Literally, they would see my cab round the corner on the one-way street and start running. Knowing this was the probability, I would’ve already paid the driver by 84th Street and be ready to run like the wind, into the building, up three flights of stairs and into my apartment, locking the door behind me.

One night, the kid gained such time on me that I’d barely made it half way up the first flight of stairs before he was pounding on the entry door. I got upstairs and realized I was missing my beautiful Kelly Green and Black Plaid Mohair scarf that I just adored. It was my all-time favorite thrift store find and I just loved it. As I looked down on the street from the window of my apartment: there it lay in the middle of the street. Oh well, I thought.” **

sex, make out, kiss, tangle, bedroom, intimacy, sexy, cuddle, lazy, afternoon, happy, homeLovers:

Lovers are the men and women that come into our lives to give us love and encouragement for a time. We attract lovers that give us emotional nourishment, even if we inevitably outgrow the source. The attraction we have with a karmic lover can be intense and usually is evidence of the healing on its way to us through this powerful soulmate relationship.

“I had a relationship with a lover who I really liked and had such an intense attraction to. Even when it became evident that he wasn’t a very good person. I spent time with him periodically over three or four months until one night while I was with him I had a flash back of the rape I’d experienced a few years before. Of course I plummeted into a deep grief response and as I did he held me and reminded me of the strength, value, and love I carried inside me. And, although we didn’t remain lovers or friends, I was always grateful for his compassion in that experience.” **

Friends:

The good friends we cultivate over our lifetime are often people from our soul group with whom we experience comfort, love, and trust enough to sustain enduring relationships. They are the people with whom we can work through conflict and transcend adversity, laughing all the way. They are the soulmates who teach us to learn unconditional love, communication, and inspire us (and require us) to be better.

I have cultivated many friendships over my lifetime and the one concurrent theme within all of them is laughter. It seems to be the ultimate antidote to any confusion, conflict, or disappointment. It’s nice to enjoy relationships when everything is peachy, but when the chips are down and you’re surrounded by folks who can make you laugh? Well, that is pure gold.

Beloveds:

Beloveds are the husbands and wives we choose and the families we are born to. These soulmate relationships can be our biggest teachers. Everybody contends with expectations in a relationship, but it is a unique experience to transcend or transform the unconscious expectations of a karmic beloved. The coming together with another based on all the love that had been present in the previous life together but, in truth, may not be present in the same way now.

Believe it or not, it’s rare for people to come into a lifetime to be together in the same type of relationship as their soul’s may have experienced before. Where’s the fun or learning in that? The intense connection and deep-seeded love we share with our beloveds are based in the requirement of a long term relationship to unveil and express the teaching or healing over time.

“The goal of all of these soulmate relationship’s is to cultivate love on every level. Love unconditional, love with boundaries, and ultimately unshakable love of ourselves and the creator. They are the faith builder’s that give us our life’s blood. So, next time you cross paths with a soulmate, fortify yourself with love, kindness, and most of all forgiveness, and jump in with confidence knowing the greatest outcome is illumination.” **

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Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings. In 2015, Tracee founded GoTracee Publishing LLC and BeASlayer.com to publish a new hybrid of self-help, memoir, and spiritual book to access a wider audience of spiritual seekers. As a multi-sensitive, Tracee blends information that she receives intuitively with different modalities to create a unique healing plan for every client. Every session is focused on freeing the client from their presenting issue to release, empower, and heal – no matter what the condition. Tracee’s compassionate, humorous, down-to-earth style supports and empowers clients as tender topics are addressed during the session. An accomplished author, Tracee has written two books on the topic of personal soul excavation and deep healing from soul to body. Book one: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Mastering Your Inner World addresses inner mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery through self-awareness and spirit guide communication. Book two: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Self- Healing and Unconditional Love empowers cultural awareness and understanding through looking at the concept of past lives and soul imprints. Tracee’s published articles cover many subjects related to spirituality and relationships while her blog breaks down current events and daily energy dynamics that everyone experiences. Tracee’s been a guest on many prominent television and radio programs informing others about spirituality and sacred ritual practices. Tracee teaches workshops, webinars, and offers two online courses on the DailyOm.com. As well as speaking engagements touching on subjects like grief, death & dying, unconditional love, self- acceptance, and healing.

4 Things to Focus on to Be a Good Lover

Author Name: Tracee Dunblazier
Publish Date: March 28, 2016
Website Link: https://www.meetmindful.com/4-things-to-focus-on-to-be-a-good-lover/

We’d all like to be a good lover, but the task of deciding where to invest our energy can be overwhelming. Let’s start with these four (essential) things.


I asked my boyfriend, back in the early days, what makes a good lover. I was about nineteen and didn’t want to do things wrong. His response surprised me. He said if I wanted to be a good lover, I should want to have sex, that being with someone who actually wants sex changes the mental and emotional connection. Hmmm, that surprised me. I expected to hear that there was some sort of action or secret to being a good lover. Who would have thought it was so simple?

But then, I thought about it.

What is it that makes a person want to connect with another mentally and emotionally? Love. Really? Love makes you a better lover? It’s true that for many folks, sex is about power and control, but if you want to have really good sex? It’s about the expression of love.

So in the spirit of love, here are the four things to focus on to be a good lover.

Love Your Body:

One percent of Americans have Body Dysmorphic Disorder; the rest of us just have issues in our perception of ourselves based on varying circumstances and hormonal cycles.

Learning to love your body is a skill that takes work. The most loving thing you can do for your sexual partner is to be willing to work through any obstacles you have about the way you look and feel about yourself. Feeling comfortable with exactly how you are in this moment gives you a freedom in your loving sexual expression.

Love Your Heart:

Being open-hearted in our society is, for some, akin with being vulnerable to manipulation; but in fact, we’re only vulnerable to the information we don’t have or don’t want to have.

On the low end: Open heartedness is trusting yourself. On the high end: Open heartedness is bringing the experience of un-conditionality into your sexual experience. That means a complete openness to your partner and their needs in addition to the ability to know and express your needs to your partner.

Love Your Partner:

Loving your sexual partner doesn’t necessarily mean to be in love with them. It means you’re willing to be generous with your truth, honesty, and kindness and negotiate a relationship that works for both of you.

From a fully accountable position, we let people treat us how they do. Setting a boundary the first time a partner expresses a behavior that we’re not interested in is the key.

Rarely does bad behavior just present itself all at once. If it did, well that would be much easier to deal with. Un-loving behavior happens in increments over time. For example, it’s easy to allow yourself to be called a name in anger, because your partner had a bad day that had nothing to do with you. Ultimately, over time, you are teaching your partner that there are times when it’s okay to treat you badly. Just saying, “Hey, I know you’ve had a bad day, but don’t call me names. That’s unacceptable,” can change the course of your entire relationship.

Expressing a deliberate boundary in a peaceful voice is enough to change the direction positively, especially when you’re just getting to know someone.

Love the Experience:

Being present in your sexual relationship requires courage. When you’re present, you’re connected and open to receiving loving energy. As you know, a natural response to being uncomfortable is contraction-–to pull back emotionally or withhold sexual expression. Opening to someone’s loving energy expands and moves you on every level; spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Letting yourself receive your partner on all levels creates an unforgettable experience.

Of course, an article on loving and being a good lover has got to mention the most important aspect of love.

When you love yourself and meet your own needs, it allows you to show authentic interest in your partner; who they are, what they like, their needs, and your sexual expression with them. Loving someone else means truly loving yourself enough to have the space for another.

Cheers to love!

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Tracee Dunblazier Tracee Dunblazier

Tracee Dunblazier, GC-C, CCDC, spiritual empath, shaman, educator, author and speaker is based in Los Angeles, California. Tracee specializes in grief counseling, energy dynamics, Shamanic healing, past life and soul recovery, transition strategy, addiction transformation, and space clearings. In 2015, Tracee founded GoTracee Publishing LLC and BeASlayer.com to publish a new hybrid of self-help, memoir, and spiritual book to access a wider audience of spiritual seekers. As a multi-sensitive, Tracee blends information that she receives intuitively with different modalities to create a unique healing plan for every client. Every session is focused on freeing the client from their presenting issue to release, empower, and heal – no matter what the condition. Tracee’s compassionate, humorous, down-to-earth style supports and empowers clients as tender topics are addressed during the session. An accomplished author, Tracee has written two books on the topic of personal soul excavation and deep healing from soul to body. Book one: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Mastering Your Inner World addresses inner mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery through self-awareness and spirit guide communication. Book two: The Demon Slayer’s handbook: A Practical Guide to Self- Healing and Unconditional Love empowers cultural awareness and understanding through looking at the concept of past lives and soul imprints. Tracee’s published articles cover many subjects related to spirituality and relationships while her blog breaks down current events and daily energy dynamics that everyone experiences. Tracee’s been a guest on many prominent television and radio programs informing others about spirituality and sacred ritual practices. Tracee teaches workshops, webinars, and offers two online courses on the DailyOm.com. As well as speaking engagements touching on subjects like grief, death & dying, unconditional love, self- acceptance, and healing.

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